Sit here

The library

Every door.
No order.

Every book stands on its own. Start with the one that sounds like you today. Each one comes with a line from inside it, so you can feel the room before you walk in.

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The Framework

Unraveling Change

The Framework of Agape, Being & Becoming

For seekers who want the whole map, at their own pace.

It offers language for those who have walked this path for years but never had words for what they already knew.

14,309 words · about 62 minutes to read · free

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Book of practice

The Practitioner of Agape

See. Hold. Guide. Release. Build.

For anyone ready to practice love in ordinary, everyday moments.

If you picked this book up because something in you knew there was more, but nothing you found quite fit what you already felt to be true, this was written for you.

4,807 words · about 21 minutes to read · free

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Inward

Agape Toward the Self

Learning to Love the One You Keep Forgetting

For anyone kind to everyone except themselves.

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes not from doing too much, but from fighting yourself while you do it.

3,849 words · about 17 minutes to read · free

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A compass

The Five Tests

A Guide to Responsible Agape

For givers whose love keeps getting heavy or tangled.

For the relationship where you keep giving and giving and somehow things keep getting harder, and you want to understand why.

2,511 words · about 11 minutes to read · free

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A mini book

One Channel

Giving and Receiving as a Single Flow

For people who quietly keep score in love without meaning to.

If you find that you too can offer this understanding to everyone but yourself, you are not behind.

2,305 words · about 10 minutes to read · free

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From A.P.E. to Agape

Civilized Animals

The Journey from A.P.E. to Agape

For anyone who reacts first and wishes they had paused.

Not perfection. Not never getting activated. Just getting better at what you do when you are.

5,769 words · about 25 minutes to read · free

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For younger readers

Learning

This One Is For You

For young people whose inside does not match their outside.

For every single kid whose inside doesn't match their outside.

3,514 words · about 15 minutes to read · free

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A pocket book

Choosing Is Enough

Trust Me One More Page

For someone who feels like they are drowning right now.

You don't need a reason to be in the water. You're in it. That's enough to start.

1,567 words · about 7 minutes to read · free

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A picture book

Little Light

A story about loving yourself so you can love others

For little ones, and the grown-up holding the light.

You are a light too. Don't forget to shine on yourself sometimes. The world needs you full.

330 words · about 5 minutes to read · free

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A pocket reference

How to Ask for Help and Receive It

A reference for your pocket

For anyone who finds it hard to reach out, or to let help in.

Reaching is not the failure. Staying silent is the thing that costs you.

330 words · about 5 minutes to read · free

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A pocket reference

The Five Tests at a Glance

A reference for your pocket

For anyone about to act in the name of love.

If it fails consent, dignity, or harm, it is not Agape. Full stop.

110 words · about 5 minutes to read · free

Still becoming

On the workbench.

Pieces taking shape now. They will show up here when they are ready, not before.

In progress

The Multispective

On holding more than one view at once, and what happens when harm is in the room.

In progress

How to Love a Lighthouse

A lighthouse, a swimmer, and four levels of loving someone from where you stand.

In progress

How to Ask for Help and Receive It

Eleven points on the two hardest halves of help.

Series

Little Light

A series of small books for small hands and big feelings.

The thread, by email

One email when something new is made.

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